Tuesday, December 15, 2009

To be or not to be...rejected?

How to deal with rejection? Surely there are plenty of books, tutorials, etc. that are there for your reading pleasure and also to act as an emotional band aid once you've been rejected, but what can these tell you that you did not already anticipate to the least bit?

To what point to you keep everything inside until you can no longer do so.

Being true to yourself has to happen prior to being true to others, because no matter how much you try to beat around the bush and say anything just to appease a situation, deep down you know that you are full of sh*t and only you know how you really feel. On occasion there is that other person out there who can see through you and spot your sh*t outright yet you don't care and stay by your initial story hoping it will allllll just go away and out of your life.

So be it.

There are those who dwell, dwell and then dwell some more and some more till they have nothing left to do but keep dwelling and hoping. Then there are those who dwell, dwell and then stop. Think. Act and then decide whether it is worth to keep dwelling or if they should just dismiss everything and move along. I like the latter.

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